Tuesday, 24 September 2019

M's birthday!

Been practicing for 3 weeks before I came how to make hokkien mee for M's bday (recipe from the burning kitchen). He has been craving this since the day he came to Geneva and it's the dish he misses most. I was quite proud of my attempts as everyone commented it tasted quite original! So with confidence, I came to Geneva thinking I would wing it and surprise him on his birthday.

Unfortunately, after hunting around and hiking to the Asian grocer in France, I still could not get the right yellow noodles and vermicelli. Seafood is crazily expensive too! And more bad news... I forgot to bring the sambal chilli 😫!! NOOOOOO!!! So the end product is above- substandard hokkien mee. 😔

M was quite sweet though and still said it was good. 

Sunday, 22 September 2019

HOME FLOOD!!

It happened... the first home emergency. We were having tea on a quiet Sunday afternoon when the kitchen floor started flooding. 😱😱😱 It must be every tenant's worse nightmare- something breaking down and you aren't sure if it's your fault. I was so nervous also because it was Sunday- how will we find a plumber if we needed one?

Thankfully, M found the cause- a loose connection in the pipes, and fixed it. There was a crazy mess to clean up after but I am thankful we did not have to call a plumber.

It's only been a week in Geneva but it has been busy. Our landlord sent her helper to come and grab some things she left behind just now. The helper asked if I was looking for some part time help and the cheapskate side of me quickly replied "no". However, when she left, I was wondering maybe I should not have been so quick to reject and instead ask how much she charges, to keep my options open. 😩 Oh well, time will tell if I survive... 😐

Wednesday, 18 September 2019

New home

Got to Geneva in a piece! Yay! Was worried how E would handle the flight but he was ok- slept through most of it and did not ask to walk around the plane! 😁 phew!!

The last 5 days have been super tiring. Moving into a new place and our things from SG aren't here yet (kitchen ware, E's toys, our mattress...) is rather inconvenient. So many new kitchen/laundry appliances we have to learn how to use, even opening our doors and windows needs special lessons! There is cleaning up too... 😓 We've been eating out of plastic containers and using disposable cutlery- until we realised that it was melting when we used it to cook 😝. However, I am thankful for God's provision of this place and also my MIL who is with me. I am surviving week 1 and it is getting better. I catch myself getting worried about what I will do when she leaves and if I can handle everything on my own (I had flashbacks of the time when my confinement nanny left and I cried my eyeballs out worrying about how to handle E on my own when M goes to work). However, as a trusted mentor shared, that there is no use worrying, eventually I will get the hang of it, and the pain of the stresses endured will be forgotten. Only the beautiful and fond memories will stay. And I shall be able to look back and laugh at it all - like how I can laugh at myself worrying about how to care for an infant. 😁

*E's new caravan home that is keeping him entertained and providing us a source of relief while we rush about the household chores. Heehee- #iloveikea. He even stole a plastic sheet from the kitchen to use as a doormat for his humble abode. 😂

Monday, 9 September 2019

Bittersweet...

My bitter yet sweet thoughts on leaving in a few days.... 😩😊
- Happy because we will reunite with M, sad because we are leaving our families/friends
- Adventurous because it will be a new life/environment, apprehensive because much unknown lies ahead and no routine yet
- Peaceful because we have seen God provide for us and we know we can call on Him, yet anxious at times
- Full of faith sometimes, yet faithless
- Full of ideas, yet worried i cannot do them

Thankfully, knowing God and who He has been to me sweetens most of my bitter thoughts (except the first about leaving other loved ones behind). It seems that when i look at God, i can only taste my sweet thoughts. 

Tuesday, 3 September 2019

House Hunting

House hunting was truly a lesson in faith for both M and I. We came to Geneva early to look at a few places. It was rather nerve wrecking at times as we recalled the many experiences recounted by previous people who have gone before us - vacancy rate is low, throw in whatever application you need because you don't know what you can get...

There were also barriers - agents who don't reply, agents who only spoke french, everybody only works mon-fri 9am-5pm... Time was also limited and we were desperate. The time spent waiting in between of things happening was really 😰.

However, during those first 2 weeks, even though we were far away from home, living in a hotel room and frantically scrolling the housing site, emailing or texting the agents, waiting, etc, God came to me in my devotional lessons. I was reading Ezra 5-6 on temple rebuilding. The governor of Trans-Euphrates came and questioned the Israelites about who allowed them to rebuild the temple. However, a search was made and indeed it was proven that King Cyrus had indeed approved this temple to be rebuilt. In fact, King Darius further decreed that whatever they needed shall be given to them to assist them to complete this work they started. God is amazing. Because His hand was on the Israelites, though they faced oppositions, they were able to overcome it and usually got more than what they hoped for.

A few days later, i read Nehemiah 3-5. Nehemiah also faced many problems rebuilding the city of Judah. He was taunted and ridiculed by Sanballat, his labourers were tiring out from the work, his own people were afraid of being attacked by others... Yet, he chose the best thing to do- continue to pray and strategise. He refused to let fear destroy or stop them. It reminded me that the only person who knows and can make a difference in any circumstance is God. He is the only one i can and should be calling upon. God can do what no man can. So we prayed.

We found a beautiful place that was near M's work and E's school. It was a nice quiet neighbourhood and near a pharmacy and grocery place. It was fully furnished too. The only problem was that it exceeded the rental ceiling given by M's company. There was another cheaper place but much further down the road, not furnished, no ceiling lights. We considered it still as it was near Lake Geneva and a beautiful park. We made applications for both. The fully furnished place we saw replied real quickly and accepted us!! We were confused because frankly, we did not dare pin our hopes too high. It was unbelievable that she responded within half a day and made us an offer. We decided we would pray some more as it may mean forking out the excess rental each month since it was over the budget. M decided he would write to his company too to give them a heads up. We waited for another few days and talked over the 2 places alot, comparing the pros and cons. Then M's company replied to say that they would raise the rental ceiling!! It was clear as day- we should choose the first place. God is indeed good. He not only provided a house, He provided the furnishings, good location, a landlady who lives near by...

There were many other hitches in between like getting the bank account, paying the bills that were rolling in even before the bank account could be opened, etc. However, in the past 3 weeks, i also see God's hand at work in our small insignificant lives.

Indeed, what is man that you are mindful of him, and the son of man that you care for him?